Abusive Men Know What They Do!

I had been seeing a man named David Greetan , nothing serious just spent a little time together here and there. I know that this person is not the most upstand citizen since he has been to prison four times in his life so far and I know it was for fighting, that is what his mother told me anyway. It does fit his personality because he is quite aggressive, mean, and he is a bully.

He had sent me a message on messenger asking if I could buy some food because he got fired from his job, again. He lives with his mother so the days when I would spend the night I have the thought of his mom being in the room with us the whole time. It kind of seems that way even though I know she’s not.

When someone can turn on you in a split second and turn into a rabid dog about to swallow you like a pork chop, you need to know to get away from that individual because you never know what is to come out of that person. Pay attention to everything after you see this because they become very dangerous to even be around and you should be fearing for your life, they really are capable of anything when evil has consumed them to this point.

I have seen men who are abusive sit and watch how happy their partner is, laughing, playing and enjoying simple life, destroy with only a few simple words. It’s usually something that will cut straight to your emotions and you will feel like you just got stabbed in the heart with a knife, like this “you sound so stupid when you laugh” this wears down on your self esteem over time and remember these guys are patient. It’s either that or they will cause a scene and blame you for it, all so you stop enjoying yourself. This gives them your power so ignore them.

The years I have spent in relationships with abuse has taught me many things to look out for and the things people do to gain power over another, I have learned a lot about how these guys operate and how far they will go to get what they want out of you no matter what they have to do to get it.

Knowing someone is struggling would make you think someone will eventually help that person, especially if it’s their partner but not in this world today, it seems everyone is only out for themselves. Instead of helping they prey on you when your down and if you are having a good time they feel the need to rip it apart and leave you guessing as to what just happened. I know I would get exhausted living in the cycle of abuse and in an active relationship with it, it’s impossible to keep up with all the games.

I had just got out of the shower when he turned into the monster calling me names so I had to hurry up and get dressed. I rushed to get all of my things in a bag because I had been working on the computer so my stuff was still laying around. I got out the door when he said we were going to take the bike. So he expected that I would put all my important stuff in the lock box on the bike to get to my house. Not a chance in hell buddy, I said I would walk.

This guy David, I could see in him that there is not much of a person left inside, no empathy for any reason in him and can turn in an instant. I can’t say I didn’t know he would have something seriously wrong with him, from my past experiences with him I guess I should count my blessings that he didn’t put his hands on me. I know now I need , and will stay away from this guy and his mother because all that is is a trap. I put his phone in the same place he crawled out of, the toilet!

I don’t understand how people can just turn their heads to these kinds of things and let them go “un-noticed”. I believe it has made society act if this is normal behavior, normal to abuse and control another human being like a slave, this is not okay! When you look away it’s like you silently are agreeing with it.

Published by Ms Kiim

I have had a hard life and been through some tough experiences. I have a lot of information to share when it comes to domestic violence and abuse of every kind, the cycle of abuse is a horrible place to live and I hope to empower women so they have a chance to break free and change the quality of life for themself and the children.

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