Not Same Person, New Person, Person is Same.

It still amazes me how many times I run into people who have invested so many long hours in learning how to tear down another human being.

I was speaking with a person today who I am just getting to know, when some of the things that I was hearing come out of his mouth made an uncomfortable yet familiar feeling come up and I’m not sure what year it is anymore. Suddenly I am having flashbacks to a different time and place and the room is spinning. I am personally familiar with abuse of women, domestic violence, the cycle of abuse, and with the many different ways that are used to tear another person down to gain as much control as possible. Sometimes it’s fast and sometimes these guys will be so patient it takes years.

When you just meet a person, a person who you set your sights on to maybe pursue a relationship with and they become the most dangerous person to you because they are now the closest to you. When you begin to trust a new situation with someone you don’t really know, you will let your guard down in order to prevent bringing all the baggage of your past with you, trying to make a change and pick a different type of person but it seems that you can’t get anyone to treat you in the way a partner treats a partner, respectful and honest. I believe people only treat you how you let them treat you.

There are so many people, men and women too, who agree with how women have been treated throughout history. My mother started a conversation with me about how long women have been prostituting themselves for centuries and how there are many benefits for compliance.I was not having this conversation with her. It has always been an unspoken thing that every woman knows but never dares to go usually.

The evil behind all the masks is the same person underneath the mask of many faces. The evil part of the spiritual world consumes everything without caring about anything but feeding the need it has to consume it all. Abusive people tend to all have the same nice characteristics when you first meet them, they will go out of their way to be nicer than everyone else just so they can be the closest to you. They become your savior at some point and they are now your best and only friend. This is all for the purpose of tearing you down and stealing all of your things you need to put yourself together for your everyday life. This gives the other person control over you little by little and sometimes it takes many years and lot’s of patience but they really don’t have anything better to do.

Many years of losing parts of my life has left me with next to nothing, it seemed to be easier to walk away from things rather than try to hold on to the material belongings that are used to get you to come back, it’s like bait and trap because once they have you back it only goes downhill from that point. The cycle makes me sick to my stomach and if this world does not make a drastic change and start thinking about the greater good of the human race and help where possible, I fear there will be nothing left to save.

The feeling from it never changes so even though you have tried different relationships with different people, it is the same person….evil took over but they let it.

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I have had a hard life and been through some tough experiences. I have a lot of information to share when it comes to domestic violence and abuse of every kind, the cycle of abuse is a horrible place to live and I hope to empower women so they have a chance to break free and change the quality of life for themself and the children.

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