Taking care of yourself is important in so many ways, selfcare is one of the most necessary things you can do for yourself to move you forward in a positive direction for your future. When you get dressed in the morning and go through the list of things you need to get done in your head, tell yourself to do your best is to feel your best, to feel your best is to look your best. So I get dressed everyday as if I am having to meet a million new people even if I’m not just to feel like I am going to accomplish something.
This also works against me a lot of the time, I would have to say more times than not that since I am not ugly I get approached by almost everyone. Aggrevating to say the least because after a while. I just stop being nice to anyone.
The lines I’ve heard and the excuses, lies, backstabbing, cheating, fucked up relationships and friendships all because the only thing any of those guys wanted was either to get in my pants or control me by trying to get me to comply all while pretending they like me. I don’t understand how a person says they are your friend while they are doing things that disrespect you in front of other people when you’re not around.
This leads me to having to choose to put up with things I don’t like from another person or be by myself. I usually find a project to do because I am not going to settle for less than what I want and compromise doesn’t work when people don’t know how to not take advantage of others.
The decision is a “no brainer” but on the other end of the spectrum, if you’re pretty and take care of yourself some people are afraid to approach you for fear of rejection. I try to pay attention to body language a lot. It will tell me valuable information about that person before they even say a word. I do my best not to be rude but being nice wastes so much time in the long run because it eventually turns out you should have never trusted the person to begin with.
Expectations run high but in fact all it comes down to is loyalty, self integrity, and respect. If you have all of these things then you are doing better than most of the human population right now but these things are hard to find in anyone nowadays.
Being alone is one of the hardest things about being pretty and having standards. People think pretty girls can always get a date and that is true if you like wasting your time on stupid conversations, it’s only one in a million that you find a friend that it’s effortless to be around. Being lonely makes you wish for someone real.