My Heart, My Kids

As every day goes by my heart aches for my kids, not having them with me hurts as I am sure it does many. The cut throat ways people manipulate others in order to control what is not theirs, nevermind that it only hurts the child in the long run. Abusers use children as tools against the other parent because everyone knows you will do anything for your kid and don’t care enough to pay attention to the baby and how that may have something to do with why all the hissy fits question. They destroy the other person’s life, acting from emotion is never good for anybody.

Social Services(CPS) hide themselves behind the mask of “ Child Services “ when what they should be called id child stealing agency, or Child and family destroying agency because they pretend to have the best intentions to keep children safe when all they really do is protect the ones that have abused you and let them continue abusing your child emotionally. I found a photo yesterday of my son when he was about two and he was staring at the ground. It looked to me like he was wondering what happened to my mommy.  It made me start crying first off because it was around the time I had got him back from foster care and my ex had taken him from me. I had left my abusive partner and took my son to a domestic violence shelter so we would have a chance at a good life but he was able to manipulate the court system and take him from me. I was in a shelter for God sakes, how did they just grant him the ability to continue his abuse without even checking out the facts? They believed his story about drugs and alcohol abuse without checking the facts. The fact was I had been in therapy,I had quit drinking and doing drugs, I had just changed the type of person I was. I had just got my son back from foster care and out of the system a month earlier.

Separation of mother and child creates a very large shift in the direction of not only one life but two. It isn’t natural for a child to be without mom because that’s where the nurturing comes from and the trust the child builds to bond with people in the future so when that is broken it becomes an attachment disorder and leaves the child with some big issues in the future. The boy or girl ends up never trusting anyone which destroys any chance of having normal relationships in the future because there is no trust for emotional attachment.

Published by Ms Kiim

I have had a hard life and been through some tough experiences. I have a lot of information to share when it comes to domestic violence and abuse of every kind, the cycle of abuse is a horrible place to live and I hope to empower women so they have a chance to break free and change the quality of life for themself and the children.

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